Change starts by seeking help!
No matter what end of the spectrum you find yourself, it is difficult for most people to pick up a phone and begin the initial investment in their well-being by calling a counselor.
Life may feel like it is whirling by at a dizzying pace, making you wonder how you will fit one more appointment into your weekly schedule. Or you may feel how slow life is going – and nothing seems to work!
I have been in both places, and I empathize with the feelings of hopelessness and not having the power to change things. That is why, from the first conversation, I want you to feel as comfortable as possible to share anything that is bothering you.
I am the safe person you have been seeking.
My time with you is a judgment-free zone.
Our culture drives us to be fake and put on our best smile when we are sobbing inside. We rarely feel the freedom to be real and share how we truly feel in fear of what people may think of us.
Engaging your story is essential.
I rebel against notions such as the culture defining our worth and value by what is on our outside. Since a young man, I have been on a journey to know God and know the human soul. My training and life experience have allowed me to understand at a deep level how the cognitive, affective, and volitional components of humanity work.
We are broken people living with other broken people in a broken world. What does this mean?
It means that it is outlandish for us to go about our life insisting we need no help from anyone. It would be like a soldier in war who had his arm blown off, walking down the trenches saying “good day” to everyone and refusing any medical care.
When you come to see me, whether in person or via teletherapy, we will get to know each other and have you share your story. Sharing our stories is complicated but essential because it helps me understand the major themes of your life.
A Bit About Me
My predominant roles in life are as a father, husband, Christian, and therapist. My favorite past times include being outside, biking the trails, relaxing at the beach, or taking a hike on vacation with the family.
As a theologian at heart, I always try to know Christ better and understand the human soul’s depth. I enjoy playing in my wood shop, where there are no deadlines or outside pressures.
I attempt to live life at a slower pace and enjoy God’s presence in the moment (which sometimes is my biggest challenge!).
Here is some information about my training.
I love to learn about many things, and my professional training has prepared me for life as a counselor.
My B.S. degree is in Communication Theory with a minor in Fine Arts from Illinois State University. I received a Masters in Divinity from Multnomah University and a Masters in Clinical Social Work from Michigan State University.
While at Michigan State University, I received training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy. At Texas Christian University (Karyn Purvis Institute), I received certification as a Trust-Based Relational Intervention Practitioner.
I also earned a School Social Work Certificate; was a Clinical Intern at Heartwood School for Special Needs in Mason, Michigan; and received a Medical Certificate and Clinical Internship for a Hospice agency.